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Back when I was engaged, I am sure that I heard the words in today’s Gospel. I am equally sure that I wasn’t listening at all. After all, what 23 year-old is focused on the Bible and its implications on his life? I was much more concerned about my job in the Army, my next duty station, and whether Ann Marie would still want me when I got back from overseas than I was about discerning the meaning of a passage of Scripture (I don’t think I even owned a Bible back then…).
I was a product of our culture, a culture which looks at marriage as a convenient contract between two people, and which looks at children as a matter of convenience and “choice”. So in looking at marriage, our culture didn’t prepare me to think about “higher things”; everything that Jesus referred to in the Gospel today went right over my head.
But have you ever thought about what it means to be “one flesh” as Jesus declared in today’s Gospel? The implications of that declaration are huge. And they mean something, not only to couples who will marry, but to the whole Church.
In the Old Testament reading, God creates woman to “complete” the man Adam. Something was missing in Creation after everything else was made. What was it that was missing? A suitable partner for the man! According to the story, the man Adam had dogs, and cats, and cattle, lions and tigers and bears to hang out with; none of them was a suitable partner for the man. So God took something out of Adam, and from that created the first woman, Eve. So Eve contains what was now missing from Adam, and she completes him, makes him whole.
A lot of time passed from the creation of man until the Pharisees were hassling Jesus; and so had a lot of sin in the world. The Pharisees try to trap Jesus with a question about divorce, which was a legitimate practice under the Law. They wanted to put Jesus in the position of contradicting The Law, so that they could then punish Him. And Jesus put it right back in their faces: “Because of the hardness of your hearts he wrote you this commandment.” And then, Jesus pointed to the creation story: God created male and female to become one flesh.
It’s interesting to see how these teachings play out in our modern world. One flesh. Jesus says we’re to join with our spouses and become one flesh. And that teaching is supposed to drive our conduct in and outside of marriage.
For example: This teaching tells us that our sexuality should be reserved for marriage, when we become one with our spouse. And it tells us that we should not contracept, because all forms of artificial contraception interrupt the union of spouses, and keep them from becoming one flesh.
It tells us that our marriages are intended to be permanent. Not perfect, just permanent. And it tells us, as we read further in the Gospel today, that the products of our marriages, our children, are special in the eyes of God, and that we should not only care for them, but strive to make them holy.
And Jesus teaches us all of this even in the midst of a culture that sells us the exact opposite message. Jesus teaches us that the perfect unity of marriage is a gift from God, a gift that that our First Parents compromised in The Fall, but that we are now able to reclaim through grace. And He encourages us to strive to achieve that grace!
But…what if we’re already divorced? What if we’re contracepting? What if we’re… sterilized? What if we’ve already tried marriage and it just didn’t work out for us?
Brothers and sisters, all of these are realities in our lives. If we aren’t personally in those situations, we know lots of dear friends who are. And I wouldn’t stand here and tell you “Too bad…there’s no hope for those folks”… because that would not be true!
Jesus, and his Church, both call us to a high standard. Our marriages, and our children, deserve our best effort to try to achieve that standard. But when something goes wrong, when our best efforts fall short of the goal, we still have God’s mercy to fall back on. Divorced? That doesn’t kick you out of the Church! Go talk to our priests. They will help you understand your situation, even if it’s been years! Contracepting? Come talk to any of us; let us help you understand what the Church teaches, and how beautiful it is. And consider trusting that God created you correctly, and fertile. Sterilized? Again, our priests can help you, first to understand why that wasn’t the best decision, and then to understand how to move beyond it. No one will judge you. All of us just want to help!
At the end of the day, God gave us the gift of marriage to let us help each other to get to heaven. And He gave us the gift of children to let us be co-creators with Him in building His kingdom!
“One flesh”. God calls us to be one flesh. And all that went right over our heads when my wife and I married. And I don’t think our experience was unusual!
But in today’s Gospel, Jesus tells his disciples, and the Pharisees, what God has called us to. Marriage is no small thing; it’s not just a contract between two people to hang out together. Marriage is the sacrament which creates ONE out of TWO. Marriage joins together a man and a woman just as Christ is joined to His Church. And marriage is important enough that we ought to do everything we can to strengthen it against the assaults of this world.
So much in the world works against marriage. We have to take hold of all that God provides us to help us on our journeys together. If you’re married, ask yourself:
“What have I done to become more united to my spouse today?”
If you’re not married, the question is: “What am I doing to become more united to Christ, and to His bride, the Church, until I marry, if that’s God’s will?”
Strong marriages, and strong families, are what build up the Church. And God’s grace is the glue that binds those strong families. Ask for His help. And see what happens!
Homily – Respect Life Sunday 2010 (January 24, 2010)
February 17, 2010
Deacon Chip Commentary, Homilies 1 Comment
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The Kingdom of God is At Hand?
There is a lot going on in the world right now, isn’t there? Our country has been at war for almost eight years. Our economy is still struggling to recover from some very bad times, and millions are still out of work. Eleven days ago, an earthquake virtually destroyed an entire city, leaving tens of thousands of people dead, and well over a million people homeless.
So…we’re supposed to believe that the Kingdom of God is at hand? When we look around at the world, when we watch the news and see the suffering that is present, we can get the idea that things are literally going to hell. When we feel the constraints of limitations on our religious expression at work, at school, and in the public arena, we might be tempted to believe that the world is coming apart at the seams: God forbid that we utter a prayer in any place that might be overheard by someone who doesn’t share our belief in a Higher Power!
But yet…Jesus announced that the Kingdom of God is at hand! And we know Jesus is no fool, so… what? How are we supposed to reconcile what we see…with what we know?
Today’s readings help us some. The first reading, from Nehemiah, describes how the people of Israel stood before the gate of Jerusalem and listened to the Law being read aloud. Their joy at hearing the Law proclaimed and explained …made them cry! But Ezra instructed them to go and throw a party, because it was the Day of the Lord! He wanted them to realize that what they were hearing was a cause for celebration!
In the Gospel reading, Jesus shocks the people of his hometown as he starts his ministry. He reads from the book of Isaiah: “The Spirit of the Lord is upon me,
because he has anointed me to bring glad tidings to the poor.” Jesus was announcing that He had arrived, and that the Kingdom was now at hand!
What a shocking statement to make in front of a bunch of people who have known you since birth! But Jesus proceeded to prove what he was saying: He went out to captives of sin; he restored sight to the blind! And ultimately, He set all the oppressed free, through His death on the Cross! Jesus talked about the Kingdom of God being at hand…then He went out and made it happen!
I noted that there was an awful lot going on in the world that seemed to contradict this Kingdom of God thing. And if we just look at the surface, we could despair. There is a lot of pain and suffering in the world; there are wars, and economic turmoil, and natural disasters. But…look beneath the surface!
Sure, there is a war; but look at the work our brave soldiers, sailors and airmen are doing in the lives of the people affected by those wars! They are working to keep the civilian population safe, and to improve their lives, even as they try to root out the evil-doers in their midst! Yes, there is economic disaster; but look at the people stepping up to help those most affected by the times! From food pantries to networking groups, churches in our city and around the country are working to help those who cannot get by on their own, and who need help.
And watch the news coming out of Haiti! People from all over the world have donated hundreds of millions of dollars; individuals and corporations have shipped ton upon ton of supplies; people have literally put their lives on hold, dropped everything and gone to Port-au-Prince to try to make a difference in the lives of the people affected by the earthquake.
These people are the Kingdom of God at hand in all of these disasters! This is why we can proudly proclaim that the Kingdom of God is at hand!
But there is one area in which, just maybe, there is more prophetic work to be done. This past Friday marked the 36th anniversary of the Supreme Court decision Roe V. Wade, a decision which has led to almost 50 million unborn children never seeing the light. Talk about something working against the Kingdom! And yes, it is a shame.
But as sad and wrong as those statistics are, I am not going to talk about them; I’d like to talk about us. I read a commentary this week by Sr. Bernadette Reis, FSP, in which some tough questions were asked. Essentially, Sister’s point was this: Are we just mouthpieces for the Church’s teaching on abortion, running around talking about how evil it, and how it carries the penalty of automatic excommunication…or are we actively addressing the things that push women into abortion clinics?
Are we just protesting outside clinics…or are we offering to take in women in crisis pregnancies? And I am sure we are all for supporting abortion alternatives…but have we considered opening our doors, and our wallets to ensure women who need our help really do have an alternative to abortion?
Maybe it’s time for the People of God to stand up, take stock, and step out into the streets, to proclaim with our lives that the Kingdom of God really is at hand…in our lives, and in the lives we touch!
I asked how we are supposed to reconcile what we see in the world…with what we know to be true. Here’s how we do it: We quit talking about what we know, and we go out and do something about it!
Jesus’ proclamation of the Kingdom didn’t happen in a vacuum. And He didn’t say all that pretty stuff just to impress somebody; Jesus immediately got up, got out, and started making His kingdom a reality on the ground He walked. He liberated captives, gave sight to the blind, and freed the oppressed; And He continues to do it today, through His body, the Church. All of us are parts of His body; we all share the responsibility to do His work in the world.
We see Christ at work in his Church every time there is a problem or a hardship in the world. We make the Kingdom of God present every time we extend a hand to a neighbor in need.
Christ is counting on us. How can we help make His kingdom more apparent in the world?
Whose life can we change, by standing up, and stepping out for the Kingdom of God?